Saturday, October 3, 2009

Fall is here!



Dear Family and Friends,

It is chilly out in the early morning now...walking at 7:30am we have to have 2 layers on to withstand the chill. Definitly fall and the acorns are dropping in bunches so many on the ground now. I love this time of year though and yet it means that cold cold weather is ahead. Our summer was a good one with only about 3 days of smoke so that wasn't too hard to handle. Mt. Shasta got alittle dusting of snow on it now and it doesn't look so baren with no white at all.

Not much else to report for this week. Just working and trying to keep things going smoothly around the house...actually Mack does most of it now..haha.
He does alot of the dinners, and he is a great cook.

I did get to go over to Wendys for a afternoon ~~ we did some yard work and errands for the kids and caught up on our families doings. We went on a hour walk also and so I got in about 6 miles in that day; 3 in the morning and 3 in the afternoon~~that is a good workout for 1 day. Wendy's family is a still very full and busy with her boys at home. She is very lucky to be able to be apart of all of it and spend more time with them without working at Raleys anymore....So happy for her and Bob. It was a great day in the country...enjoyed it tremedously. I just gotta see the mountians and trees up close sometimes...it makes me feel so much better! Even though our house is in a beautiful area too...with trees and mountians...over in Ft.Jones it is even prettier and looks more like Colorado....and only 20 minutes away.

My son Eric, had 1 wisdom took pulled (a upper one) this week ~~day after his 29th Birthday~~ and he said it was a tough one...took 2 doctors and 1 nurse and 1 1/2 hours to complete the extraction. They told him to go to a oral surgeon for the other one next time if he really wants it out. They said it was the hardest extraction either doctor had ever done..Poor Eric...I hope his jaw is feeling better by now.

So guess that is all for now...I will post again sometime soon!

Hugs & Prayers,

BJM

Gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder.

G. K. Chesterton

Monday, September 21, 2009

Thursday, September 10, 2009

Summer's Over 2009


Dear Family & Friends...

I let the whole summer slide by without any new posts on the Family Blogg..I have been lazy, I guess~~ but finally am into getting back to communicating again with everyone.

End of May was when I took back my Grand Dog.."Skitto" to her mommy. We had a good trip there and TJ was so happy to have her home again. We do miss her here though.

June was kinda quiet...getting into the good summer months...we planted flowers in planters...cleaned up the winter months mess outside...and geared up for the hot months ahead. We did end up having a warm summer but decided not to use the AC this year and used 2 portable evaporative coolers in the house instead to save $$. Have to watch it now as things are tight. So it did work and we adjusted to not being so cool. I liked it....Mack is still adjusting. Then we cancelled our Dish network for the TV channels and cut money that way too. We just hooked up our computer to the TV and watch Hulu.com instead and enjoy all the programs that way that we saw before. It is a great savings for us there also.

July came and went pretty fast...the fourth of July was spendt at our friends home The Conners and we had a good time there also. I had to work most of that day anyways...so we went late and didn't stay too long either as I had to work early the next day. Got lots of pictures there too...and made a cute slide show for all to see...


The Big event for July was Eric coming home from IRAQ...after 15 months of being there. Kristen & Christopher and my sister and kids and Terry Johnson all met him there at McCord Airforce base at 6:00am in the morning on July 15, 2009...They had balloons and signs and flowers and took pictures and all for me and Mack. We haven't seen the pictures yet...but know we will soon.

I got to see the sign and balloons when we got up to Erics on July 30th for a whole week of vacationing with him. It was a great week...Eric was so happy to be home and works on his lawn alot and landscaping and his backyard deck. He loves his home and is so proud of what he has accomplished there. He has put his heart and soul into it and it shows!! We went swimming one of the first days there (as it was bloody hot there) and it was s fun time to cool off with all of us. We went on walks in his neighborhood at night sometimes to just get outside and enjoy the area.


We went to Loretta and Bob's Winery "Andrake Cellars" on that Saturday Aug 2nd...which was also Bobby Jr's 32 birthday too...and they had a rib & chicken cook-off and also they cooked a 45# pig...it was all very good and we had a blast. Took movies that day and glad that I did...a day to remember for our family... Also~~~ our Cousin Dianne Corzo and Sean (her son) came up special to enjoy that day with us and have a weekend of family sharing. It was excellent to be with them and enjoyed catching up with them both...it always goes so fast though. Dianne came up on the train and went on up to Vancover to see where she spendt a few years when she was younger...and Sean went on a road trip with a friend and checked out the great northwest. Time flies by us all so fast.


We spendt one evening with the Shultz family ~~ ~ what a nice evening to see the kids all having fun chasing bugs and enjoying their backyard. Kristen made a great barbeque and Christopher barbequed the meat for us all..it was quite a big feast and we ate alot again! that evening went much too fast too.

then we spendt a few days with Eric...and his friends Chad and Mandy also...

and we even went swimming one evening with the whole family at Patterson lake...and the water was warm like Hawaii...how awesome...and fun..got movies of that evening also...very relaxing.

We got to spend some good quality time with Eric...ran some errands with him and Mack and him went on a 27 mile bike ride the last day we were there.

They followed a bike trail that goes on for eternity...and they had to be picked up when they got tired...which was in Olympia...at the church that Kristen and Christopher got married at...

Then our time there was over and Mack and I left Thursday...he dropped me off in Portland, Oregon...for TCF National Convention...for that weekend of August 7-9th~~ it was such a spectacular bonding experience to be with over 1000 bereaved parents from all over the united states. We had classes and speakers at the dinner and luncheon...and it ended Sunday morning with "The Walk to Remember"~~which again I took movies during the event...It was a most invigorating time for our chapter members that went.


Then the rest of August,...Eric came home for fair-time and his 10 year class reunion...and we saw him alittle while he was home...but mostly he was able to visit with his dad and work on his sandrail...got it totally redone and put a new engine in it also...he was hoping to go to the dunes in oregon but never made it so maybe later this year...

Mack and I had our 14th Anniversary on the 21st of August also.. We spendt the day shopping up in Medford, Oregon...and then ate at the new Callahans Restaurant on the way home for a nice Dinner...Great food and a special treat to eat there...Humming birds flying all over there and the view is beautiful right on top of the Siskiyou pass...loved that memory..

So that brings us to September now...I am approaching Bonnies Rememberance date on the 14th of this month and it is still a very hard time for me to seem to get thru. although it has been over 10years now...the sorrow and loss never seem to leave my heart long...but I have just learned to deal with it alittle quicker when the feelings surface...Will probably do something special to commemorate my love for her on that day...

We are also planning to go to Plymouth Bluegrass Festival next weekend in the foothills of southern sacramento area.. We had such a good time there last year we are returning again...We can take our Molly there...and it isn't too terribly expensive to get ourselves there ...so it is our fun outing to enjoy together~~we both love it alot.

Other than all that...I have been quilting in between things and events...trying to get a few projects done and getting myself geared up to using the quilting table and longarm sewing machine. I have trouble getting it to sew without the thread breaking...I had it working for awhile...but it has been a stretch since I jumped in and really used it...so I have to start from scratch again...and watch the viedo and see if I am doing anything wrong..

Have to get Brittany & Andy's Wedding quilt done...and mostly Eric's quilt that I promised would be done when he got back from Iraq this time...I am terribly slow...but will get them done soon...I promise...do or die..!

So If you got thru all this...you are caught up on our happenings in our family..we have been very busy...will post more often now...knew it would take me sometime to catch up...Sorry..

Hugs & Prayers..

Bette Jo

P.S....have to go make a apple pie for Mack...someone gave us some Macintosh apples (at a musical day we had at friends on Labor day) that are sooooo good! must use them up...will take a picture and share what the result is...hopefully I won't burn it! haha!



Tuesday, March 24, 2009

March 24th, 2009 Tuesday

Dear Friends and Family,

Not a whole lot to report this past month...it has been just work and taking care of my "Grand Dog"...actually she is a breeze to be around...just so powerful when she starts to run...and she can't stop very easily. Great entertainment for both Mack and I. Another month or so and she will be back with her mommy in San Luis Obispo. She gives me the biggest smiles and greetings each time I come home from work...she loves to track squirrells and run the lenght of our yard. So she is getting tons of exercise each day even if we don't formally take her on a long walk. If we didn't have this 2 1/2 acres for the dogs..then I would be worried about her not getting enough running.

My sister Loretta and her husband Bob spendt a night with us about 1 week ago

on St. Patty's day night...as they were on their way back from Palm Desert as they went to celebrate their 35th wedding anniversary there a few weeks after their anniversary. They truly enjoyed their rest and time there...I think it was a great idea for them to escape the cold winter at home. We were so happy to squeeze in a vist with them also...and stayed up til late talking and catching up.

Got to show Loretta all my quilting projects etc...and enjoy seeing her again. Our visits are few and far between so it was wonderful.

Yesterday...Monday the 23rd...we have a for Sale sign in front of our home now. Mack thinks it is time to start trying to make changes in our lives as we are heading for retirement in the next year or so. I am ok with it...but it will require alot of work for us both and trying to keep it that way for a long period of time is stressful. ugh. I am sure it will take forever in this sluggish economy..

I am working on a batik quilt for Wendy's daughter "Brittiany" as she is getting married in May to "Andrew" and will be starting her new life soon. I am also working on a table runner for her shower which is in about 2 weeks. much to do.

I have Eric's quilt to finish before he comes home in July also..and hopefully one other quilt too...Now I have the quilting table it shouldn't take long to finish these projects.

Well, must get ready for work soon...have a long day ahead til 6:30 in the checkstand..I will be so ready when I do get retired...it is getting to be just not as much fun to be there anymore. I love seeing everyone that I love and have grown to enjoy..but I am ready for new horizons now...maybe a different job when I retire...

Hugs & prayers,

BJM

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Valentines week


Dear Friends and Family,

I am having more fun checking out other peoples bloggs and learning so very much from that. I get recipes..craft ideas, hints on all sorts of stuff that interests me..it really is my newspaper and I do enjoy it in the mornings. It is kinda addicting and I have to pull myself away after awhile. Would get nothing else much done if I didn't see time fly right by me.

I have been shredding old papers...going through old boxes and saving what is neccessary and getting rid of stupid old reciepts and 20 year old things that will never be used. What a job..and I burned up the shredder...so have to get another one. oh well,

didn't think that would happen - just a simple job and I can seem to get machines to act their worse easily.

We are enjoying watching Teresa Jo's doggie "Skitto" --4 year old great dane...she doesn't know she is big and when she gets rolling running it is so hard for her to stop...like a locomotive express...and if Molly gets in the way she gets mad...and if Copper (our german shorthair) is nearby he watches out for his own space because he doesn't move too fast anyways...it is a real circus now and just letting them out in the morning is an event. We had about 2-3 inches of snow night before last and it was Skitto's first fling in the snow...she was so cute and funny. Took movies and pictures.


We are expected to have alot of snow tonight again..Alaska got 14 inches last night and it is coming our way. Wow. We are suppose to have friends over for Valentines dinner Sat night but if it is terribly bad weather...we will probably cancel. We will see.
Haven't heard from Eric in a week or so..the last communication was with Mack...and he said Eric is fine and keeping busy..looking forward to getting home in July...It has been a long haul for him this trip...15 months. We are all thinking of him..occassionally I get a box off to him...he did say he wants more peanut butter cookies...he love them so. His address is:
SSG. Longhofer, Eric
542nd SMC
Camp Bucca,
APO, A.E. 09375
(don't put Iraq on it as it could get lost)
I know he loves to hear from all our family and friends...makes his day alittle lighter.
Guess that is all for now..I plan to blogg more frequently..so
check it out more..
hugs & Prayers,
BJM